EVENTS SHAPES YOU

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I have learnt that life doesn't doesn't always give you what you so want badly,you could work your way out and beyond yet it offers you the pains you never wished for.

In relating with people no matter the type of relationship you keep with them,always learn to how to set boundaries and never drift from your purpose.

Someone once said  and I quote "Anything you lose when you  standup for your self ,protect your boundaries and begin to grow ,was not meant to stay" so hard to accept but a reality that is so meant to stay

Don't lose yourself trying to fix people who don't include you in their routines, don't go the mile for someone who doesn't care you exist, don't make sacrifices for people who don't know you also have feelings to protect and nurture.

I have seen people lose their sanity their peace of mind and their worth because they got to give their all to people who subject them to nothing for selfish gains 

Learn to always place yourself first, prioritize your goals beforehand and dont compromise it, let them call you selfish but make sure you are aiming at your goals, tomorrow careless of you don't make yourself a priority today.

We live in a world where greed, self gains and winner gets it's all has taken the order of the day, many people don't even trust themselves let alone trust anyone

When you are being valued ,they share their future with you,they communicate,the spend time and go all the way to show it, you can't always be the one to place your life in live to someone who doesn't Care about your person,learn to set boundaries and make yourself worth every bit of happiness.

Never allow events to reshape you from the sweet personality you are,make room for close renewal,know how and who to take out for your peace of mind and sanitize your inner mind from negative minded people.

vivsravine

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