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  Marriage has never been a contract of convinence but a covenant of commitment. Marriage is not based on the stability of emotions , but on the strength of character.  You can't get a perfect partner rather you better get a partner you can manage and she manages you too and build him or her to your taste.  Your hubby or wify becomes your number one in all situations after you say I do, its scriptural and spiritual, love is extreme if you know what you are in to, no form of compromise is welcomed.  Be ready to die for yourselves in sincere love and trust must exist between you two, before you enter into this venture called marriage, be at least certain. The vows are deeper beyond the words, the vows does not change,For better for worse, it very powerful than death, always remember this. Vow is an oath do always recall this, more powerful in the presence of God, be sure you know and have thought it thru before you go through it. Successful marriage is a product of g...

  Your probelm is nothing compared to what others are going through in life.  Over the weekend I saw this post and reply made by someone on Facebook and start to appreciate my own probelms which is not a probelm at all compared to what this fellow is going through.  Here is the post and reply : If you get to heaven which question will you love to ask God?  And her response : "Why do you give me a wicked man and enemy of progress as a father with step siblings that are as wicked as their father? Who would have imagined that a father and sibling can be a probelm to her and she even voiced out in pains and somewhere now there is a father loving and protecting her daugther, even if it takes all he has.  Yet there is another situation of a daugther who will never appreciate the selfless love of her father and siblings, in life the things that hunts us might be some one else's muse.  Often times we feel we are the only ones fighting battles or that we are the onl...

  Okay, about the other day, I stepped out to get some stuff just around my crib, while I was heading to my destination, I saw two men on a bike, one of them was trying to teach the other how to ride the bike. When I saw the scene ahead, I gently moved away from that direction, almost immediately when I changed my direction, the one riding was telling the one behind that he doesn't think he would be able to carry someone and ride. While he was trying to balance on the bike, the one behind told him to bend when he approaches a turn and BOOOOM, the both of them hit a car that was nicely parked. They fell gallantly and also damaged the car and got them selves wounded, hmmm, l quietly said sorry to them and continued my journey, oh yes. By the time I was through with what my shopping, I passed that same way home, then I saw the car owner and the okada men arguing on how to fix the car. Now, my piont in this story is just clear, the okada man that was being trained has doubts about his ...

  Don't let anyone on social media influence you into something you will live to reger tomorrow, a lot happens here.,be guided.  Wars                               BUSINESS: There are a thousand and one business you will be exposed to on social media, many will fall victim and still won't learn, yet there are genuine businesses too, the bottom line is that don't be carried away by sweet talks and motivational speech of marketers who wants to make quick gains. If you are not fully aware of the business, don't indulge, and if you want to, try and learn more about the business with time before you invest your money to it, if you must indulge, start small.                       RELATIONSHIPS Social media is a good and bad channel to meet people of various kind, race belief, nationality, religion and traits. It has linked many to a life time of...

  Its an adventure of love We decided to buy a house by the beach To push out the sea to the rivers.. We stood still to face all huddles They came by with swords, sharper than blades We fought with our minds and will They became terrified They queried and got fury They were belittled Awww, this thing called love Indeed has a language It's called sacrifice If you find that one person Who is willing and ready to stand still You are not lucky but favoured Love is a force Love is a will Love is a push Nothing ever stands against a love built on sacrifice, you can't beat it, the force is unconquerable, unquenchable and undeniable Love is deeper than the oceans, you can't ever get to its roots, it's harder than the rocks, so hard to break through, its wide and unreachable, like how far the east is far from the west. Don't dare figth the power of true love, as simple as it seems, in the will of a man, it can go places you can never imagine within a space of time.  Am a pin...

  Sincerely, wish to take a walk with you, the thoughts in my mind races on, surly am here to let you know this.  When you have your beloved, you are richer than you know , love is stronger than anything, never give up on hope.  Pulled in so many directions and not having no where to turn,I was wondering between taking my time of glory and showing humility.  It's a terrible thing to find one's self alone in this world, who to find love with, kindred spirt, with high spirit yet amazing to behold.  We don't always need words to speak to one another, our minds speak louder, the words echos in our heads, we hear it so clear, a huge part of us knows this. Sometimes we are broken and consumed by fear, some people come into your life to change you forever but somethings can't be. You can neither deny or explain it but miracles still happen, besotted we get, most especially when we figth and wait for love.  We desire with a seal, like a puppet our hands, to prove o...

  I looked for you and you were not there then I remembered why.. My heart bleed My mind skipped Sloped in fury  Tears poured like rain  Can I ever love again, its truly hard to love  Sometimes, we could have been enchanted but we thought we were in love, alas its so wrong  Loving makes you wonder why, for now we are  so happy and the next while, you asking questionable demands, so painful indeed.  Shattered like the clay pot that holds the old religion of why's and how's.  You are left to wonder if any one could understand why your pains are here for real.  Many rather be left alone and chose a path of loneliness than to make efforts to be with someone who will eventually toil with their hearts.  The mind games continues, love is underrated, loving isn't real, the pains becomes our companions, the tears our soul mate, then hostility and rigidity becomes your folks.  Then you hear all sorts of rage and worries being expressed, the s...