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The quality of choice you make determines the value you place on your self and its the functionality that makes you know if you are successful or not.  It helps to know if you are happy or not .also it determines what your future would be like.  Hmmm, a choice can either make you or mare you , choices are indeed a propelling factor of what the world looks like now and what it would be tomorrow.  Choice are inevitable factors , no matter how good or bad we are, surely we will all make choices, the endpiont is even seen from the beginning.  Who I am is as a result of known and unknown choices I have made and will still make , so I have decided to set my goals rigth , capitalize on my strengths , ultilise my chances and be better than I used to be .  My choice, my self, my world, my end. Our choice gives us the strength to explore , choices give us a head way, yet choice can also makes you ashamed and bow your head in disgust.  Oh, I have made a choice, a choi...

Discuss every and everything with your partner before marriage.  When I mean discuss every thing I mean pratically every thing, except the things you forgot to mention, but learn to discuss things like: *Inlaws and relatives  *Sex and child bearing  *Family and foes  *Habits and weakness  * All forms of challenges and circumstances *Children upbringing  *Finances and home management  *Education and business skills  *Biological, social, physical, emotional  *Health and believes *Culture and traditionally *Religion and personal orientation  *The past and future  *Others, etc As a woman recall that : Every king needs an Orator, encourage him , have his back, always be your husband's  fan ,bless him and pray for him. Being a wife entails more than having a husband. Dear wify, your father is your first boyfriend ,but not your last love (ur hubby)stop sharing marital issues with him. Be the first to forgive, it breaks many unseen bou...

If marriage was all about characters, good values, beauty and brains.  Then, the likes of some prostitute won't ever marry.  The most ugly ones won't near marriage..  The handicapped ones too won't marry.  Many uneducated ones, won't smell marriage Marriage is about he who finds a good thing( na only am know what is good in the person he finds) Marriage is about being a good thing for him (either now or for life)  Then when the above happens in quote marriage sets Else I still wonder why,  Why is there cheating In the marriage after all their good characters? Why is there pretence in the marriage even with their good values? (the good thing) Why is there so much animosity in the marriage with all their" I checked well before I married "'?  Why do they divorce and separate after all the checks of having a good character.? Shior for una......it takes only grace to have a good marriage.  Marriage is not about character traites you know ....if u are b...

Don't be deceived by the lights, these are dark times. Be careful! things are not what they seems to be!! Do not regard every students with lab-coat as medical students some are biology students going for their biology practicals!!! You may think you're heading to Awada only for you to find yourself at Okpoko... May the apple of ur eyes never make you cry, when things like this happens, it  will look like what I ordered versus what I got, sweet to taste painful to behold, looks like a double..edged sword,then your choices becomes One of its kind a day, scares the doctor away, the other of its kind, scares diseases away. Behind every victory there is a tough battle, behind my smiles I hide all my pains. Your beauty radiates like a fresh apple yet untouched but the inner beauty lies a bunch of onion which when slices!!it brings nothing but memories of sadness and tears. Beautiful as it looks.. Very attractive as it Appears.. Appeared delicious and attractive Tempted ...

Ladies too, also have their worries; when it comes to marriage with already made men, one of the reasons is that many of them are highly promiscuous, no true woman wants to share her man with another, these men are exposed and attracted to lots of women, because of their fame and wealth, it only takes the grace of God, self discipline and guts to find a wealthy man without flicks of ladies to play with. It's truly a big concern to women who eventually marry them.  Attention is far from women who marry wealthy men, today he is in the south, tomorrow he is in the east and this also makes the woman helpless and lonely, many of these men feel all the woman wants is money money money. No we want our man and his time and attention, we crave to hold him and lay on his chest doing nothing, that's the best feeling so far, we love to bond and share all with our man and when this is lacking, you find out that her attention becomes divided too.  Our society today must be questioned, many ...

With the powers vested in me as the Ahudiya 1 of Olugbaje fake people, the asa nwa of my kingdom, I propose the following laws on marriage as the high rate of divorce and marital brutality happening in our society is on the high side therefore the following laws must be adhered to. ... Make sure you know why you are going into marriage ... After marriage before you have the right to divorce your husband or wife will take another 25 years from the time of your wedding and during this time, you will not engage in any sexual intercourse and you won't be allowed to remarry.  . ... In the case of violence and diabolic activities, any of the partner that indulges will be kept in isolation for 5 years with hard labour. ....Cheating must be treated with upmost regard, if you dare cheat  your partner, the law says you will be castrated, Simple ..... Because of the scared rites concerning marriage both people must adhere to these laws, teach their children the laws and the import...

We live in a world full of fears Everyone is selfish in one way or the other Yet we can still make a different Come to think of it.. Life should be celebrated always Because alot happens in our world today Do u know many who wish to be in your place Do you know many envy you without your knowing Do you know many have gone with nothing Challenges are part of our lives, Infact problems comes so we can solve them Be thankful, your case is still better Chose life.. Don't let any one or thing make you feel less.. Don't listen to rubbish nothings from ingrate ,allow negetive energies go down the drain Be hopeful Be thankful Be ready Don't allow the pain of this day overcome you and subject you to faustration, chose to celebrate life no matter what happens to you. The universe abhors pain The earth loves celebrations So you have to do same Impact lives positively Help souls as much as you can Be remembered for something good Shun all forms of injustice Do...