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 Life challenges can reduce one healthy, vibrate and lively fellow to become a pack of waste, often times we become what we never prayed for, nor even wished, because we can't explain how life issues subjected us to nothing. Who won't want a life filled with bliss, a life of glamour and happiness, but most of the time, the reverse is what we get, life is so strange that it doesn't give you the room to ask and it won't not explain to you either.  Every one you meet has a story to tell, some stories are so bad, while some other stories are just too good to be true, yet some can easily say that life was so unfair to them and a handful of people would rather remain silent and wallow in their space.  Whatever life gives to us, it's always adviced to "drain the ocean" of our lives, even to the very few we assume life is good to them would have a dark story to tell, I guess thats how life is wired, pain is part of life and no one can ever question it. How do I dr...

  I sat in my corner and watched, the thoughts raced in my mind like iI was on a challenge and I was in fixed to find solutions to my needs.  I tried to pretend like I was not aware of my mind wars, I decided to look distracted and forget the wars in my mind.  I paced in my mind, like a simple pendulum I needed answers, now I can't aviod my thoughts anymore, the answers came.  Taking responsibility entails a lot. I stood out side and watch a few people who have decided to take responsibility of their lives which in turn affects the lives of others too, to be  responsible entails the following : HARDWORK :When you decide to take responsibility of something, be sure to take the work attached to it, most of the time its hardwork, even if it's the littlest work to do, as long as you have decided to take responsibility, be assured that it's absolutely hardwork.  SACRIFICE : Hmm, there is no way we can aviod talking about sacrifice, its a whole package, sacrifice...

What more have you to offer other than the following wicked vices: GOSSIP : Many are so much in the business of gossips, all they enjoy doing is gossiping people like its their personal business, if your strength lies in gossiping, then you have to desist from such acts and learn to mind your business.  GRUDGE : This act isn't sexy at all, so many people enjoy this vice alot without knowing they are destroying themselves over a period of time, grudge brings nothing good but backbiting and self pity, trust me, you will gain more when you learn to live freely.  SLANDERING : They are out to insult you, ignore you, backslash you, say all sorts of negative things to you just because they want to pull you down, if you fall in this category of persons, please for the sake of an unknown tomorrow, stop already.  Try and see the good in other people, try to promote good things and learn to appreciate people, situations and timing.  When you wish well for others, good things wo...

The best way to profess love is to show it in all sense of reality,we can preach the ways to love and never express them in fullness. Recently,I saw a video ,where a passing set of University students gifted a janitor in their school with lots of gifts for his service,which he does wholeheartedly,even though he was still paid. The joy the janitor displayed was so tearly that you think he did something personally to each of the students. Again,we lost a young widow who left two children,her death was so painful that we all felt it personally, during her burial service the church raised a substance amount of funds for her children to fall by,this gesture alone shows how we can express love in reality. We should learn to show love through and through even when it's not convenient,it goes to show how humane we could be , humanity is all about feeling someone's pain and personalise it, extend a hand of fellowship and make it' count by bringing smile even in their pai...

We are all created in the same way but wired differently, no one has white or gold blood running through their veins , we all have the same red blood, your color,race and tribe doesn't matter ,we all have the same one head and one body what matters most is that we are all human being created in one image. Life comes with so many issues, everyone is chasing something and some others are being chased, no two persons has the same challenge, it could be similar but yet unique in its own way. Someone's pepper is another's chilly and spice, someone's pains is another's gain,while some cry, others are making a fortune out of it,we all have a story to tell,either good or bad, life issues can either make you nor mare you. Recently, we lost a dear sister over a brife illness,pained as we were ,we wished it wasn't so,yet again some few days, we heard of a young lady who took her own life because she was admonished by her folks to live a scandal free life. Sadly,when I weig...

 A very happy new year of bliss goodness and mercy to us all, may the fears and challenges of the previous year never becloud the hopes of this year. If I go ahead to ask us all what were the lessons learnt on 2024, I am sure we all have bucket full of answers so unending and many are not palatable to tell.  To some it was their worse year, to others it was a good year, even to many it was a year they never wished to come by and to a few it's was the best year so far.  Again, we have started counting to what 2025 would be and so many have made resolutions they will never keep, while others have no plans for the year and  some very few people they want to horn what they have established or possibly keep to what will make the year more beautiful for them.  We all can't have the same goals and agenda for our lives but it's always good we plan ahead and make sure we achieve a better fragment of what we outlined, certainly it might be very difficult to achieve but it...

In our world today there is a lot of unanswered questions and this keeps us wondering and left in massive confusion as to why certain things happen and what is the whole essence of why we are here on earth. As the year beings, we hear strange and so unimaginable things that our minds can't comprehend,seems like our lives is all about being born, live for a while and die and the circle continues. What exactly is the essence of life ,its beyond the circle of ( born, live and die) today they are here and the next moment they are no more, they indulge in so many projects unfinished, while it's still ongoing yet they leave it unattended to and leave without any form of consideration. Actually,our lives belongs to our maker that's the whole essence of why we are here,he decides when we should come and whenever we can return to him, fulfilled or not, we have a  purpose why we are here and when it's time ,the maker calls back to glory. I,t might be very hard to acce...