MARRIAGE ISN'T FOR EVERYONE

 

 It is better to remain single and purposeful than to marry and torment your partner with your dirty life style and bad attitudes.

Training your children to become instrument in the society does not end at home but their lives must be impacted individually, sadly, even when high morals are adhered you will still see many of them who chose to becomes pains to their parents, to an innocent spouse and even their family and a societial nuisance.

Marriage can be draining when you marry a spouse who doesn't listen to you , run all your effort downs, never appreciate you as a person let alone value your worth.

Can I say that marriage is not for everyone, some are married but lives single, never indulges their partners in any affair whatsoever, take decisions alone and expect to be treated well, life indeed is a reciprocated reaction.

You must not marry, if you know you can't accept what you do to others, you must not marry, when you know you will cheat, you must not marry when you won't appreciate or value your spouse, you can't be married and still be single at the same time.

Marriage entails lots of sacrifice, it's a partnership which sees to the good of the other, where you place your spouse as a priority over everything, marriage isn't about personal gains but for the betterment of the other.

Sadly, we record lots and lots of divorce, we see couples separated for reasons they can't manage, many bear so much animosity against their spouse that has resulted to many vices, while others bottle up their pains and stay for the sake of their children.

I heard marriage should be enjoyed and not endured, which simply means that no matter what happens, you are expected to enjoy your marriages admist all the wars and affairs of life, challenge must come but when you have a spouse who loves and appreciates your worth, it makes life easier and your challenges less burdensome.

I will say this again, marriage isn't for everyone, if you know you aren't ready to stay married don't bother getting married, if you can't adhere and accept responsibilities don't be a living pain to the peace of another, they are better of without your engagement and indulge entaglement.

You can still be very much single, have a network friends, have kids without getting married and live a purposeful life void of inflicting pains to your spouse in the name of marriage, while we also have some who are married without a life of purpose, it's best to defind your life before getting involved with anyone in the space of marriage, never be the pain someone is going through, life takes turns and it might hit your harder, do to others what you want them to do to you. 

Vivsravine©