STOP EQUATING MARRIAGE WITH CHARACTER..

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If marriage was all about characters, good values, beauty and brains. 


Then, the likes of some prostitute won't ever marry. 

The most ugly ones won't near marriage.. 

The handicapped ones too won't marry. 

Many uneducated ones, won't smell marriage


Marriage is about he who finds a good thing( na only am know what is good in the person he finds)


Marriage is about being a good thing for him (either now or for life) 


Then when the above happens in quote marriage sets


Else I still wonder why, 


Why is there cheating In the marriage after all their good characters?


Why is there pretence in the marriage even with their good values? (the good thing)


Why is there so much animosity in the marriage with all their" I checked well before I married "'? 


Why do they divorce and separate after all the checks of having a good character.?


Shior for una......it takes only grace to have a good marriage. 


Marriage is not about character traites you know ....if u are blessed in marriage keep it so and remain faithful to it. 


Am not saying good characters is bad but is sadden when a lot of people have a wrong impression about people who are not married and they feel its because of their characters that is why they remain single. 


Hello, many married people with the so called good characters before marriage are out of marriage now, simply because their real characters has shown and that is why you see most people we assumed in quote have bad characters before marriage sustaining their marriage till date. 


Marriage is not a passport to heaven ...when it comes, do your best and work out your marriage ,God's grace is enough. 


Marriage is not a guarantee to a good life.peaceful life and eternal happiness ..


Some are peaceful..happy and joyous even without marriage and will still make heaven


Hence to them flickers who will.not allow us rest... Make una enter space and disappear


"Nobody way no get his or own tym"... till.your time comes... Wait for it....we are not in any competition with any one..hence the need to.mind your business...and face your life.

Vivsravine speaks 

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