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  Discuss every and everything with your partner before marriage.  When I mean discuss every thing I mean pratically every thing, except the things you forgot to mention, but learn to discuss things like: *Inlaws and relatives  *Sex and child bearing  *Family and foes  *Habits and weakness  * All forms of challenges and circumstances *Children upbringing  *Finances and home management  *Education and business skills  *Biological, social, physical and emotional  *Health and believes *Culture and traditional *Religion and personal orientation  *The past and future  *Others, etc As a woman recall that : Every king needs an Orator, encourage him , have his back, always be your husband's  fan ,bless him and pray for him. Being a wife entails more than having a husband. Dear wify, your father is your first boyfriend ,but not your last love (your hubby)stop sharing marital issues with him. Be the first to forgive, it breaks many ...

  If marriage was all about characters, good values, beauty and brains.  Then, the likes of some prostitute won't ever marry.  The most ugly ones won't near marriage..  The handicapped ones too won't marry.  Many uneducated ones, won't smell marriage Marriage is about he who finds a good thing( na only am know what is good in the person he finds) Marriage is about being a good thing for him (either now or for life)  Then when the above happens in quote marriage sets Else I still wonder why,  Why is there cheating In the marriage after all their good characters? Why is there pretence in the marriage even with their good values? (the good thing) Why is there so much animosity in the marriage with all their" I checked well before I married "'?  Why do they divorce and separate after all the checks of having a good character.? Shior for una......it takes only grace to have a good marriage.  Marriage is not about character traites you know ....if ...