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There are so many things we hold with so might and never want to let go, we are too possessive with materialistic things that will definitely fade away with time and hence neglect the things which are more edifying. In this life, we are all in pursuit of the unlimited life assets, wants and need, we become too attached to possession and acquire all that life so offers that we forget the main ingredients of life. You may want to ask me, what are the ingredients of life? These ingredients are what matters most, they are the fruits of the spirit, which entails love, peace, joy, long suffering, endurance, kindness, goodness, perseverance and hope, let me add charity and faith, these and even more will matter In the very end because these are the true characters we display in life rather than holding on to things that will pass and fade. When we exhibit these fruits, we become more impacting to the next person, these virtues may come form us but it is for the good of our neighbo...

I don't care to have enemies, Jesus had enemies even amongst his closest clan. Just make sure you doing the right thing, leave them to do as they please.  The moment you realize you can't please everyone,no matter how close you are to them,the better you start making adjustments about life. People would use you and still fault you, people would tramp upon you and still expect you to keep quite, they will bend you and pray you never get back on your feet. The very moment when you try to become better than they left you, they' become an enemy, all they want is to see you  amount to nothing. There are 5 categories of people you should avoid, any one who is always quick to hate, gossip and exhibit negativity about a neighbour, please stay away form such people, they would one day gossip you too and extend the same bad energy to you when you chose to avoid them. The next set of people are those likes to argue at every thing which leads to nowhere, to avoid pointless ...

 Last year was one year I can't forget in a bit ,indeed as sad as I write,it's a year I wish never came by, painful I lost my mum and the world meant nothing to me . If anyone would tell me that come September 19th 2025 that my mum would be no more from the first day in January, I would say it's a joke or do all in my bit to work against it. Seeing her wallon in pains and I couldn't help even when I went go stay with her for some months,I recalled the day I was leaving back to base ,I couldn't sleep and so was she too and when it was finally time to let go ,it was the hardest time of our lives as that was the last time I set my eyes on her , though she died a few months after but my life never remained the same. Some few days before her death we spoke on phone and she asked that we take her back to Lagos and even spoke to her very well, she sounded so much alive in words but her body was weak to stand another week, I personally recorded that conversation like I kn...